Silicon Valley’s hottest job is styling helpless tech execs

This guy!
This guy!

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The casual uniform of the millennial techie is a running joke by now, but some are starting to swap in their t-shirts and worn jeans for actual adult clothes. Stylist Victoria Hitchcock told Vox what it’s like to overhaul the lives and styles of Silicon Valley’s emerging employees – who literally can’t dress themselves – as they go “from boys to men.”

SEE ALSO: This picture of Mark Zuckerberg’s wardrobe is hard to believe

Hitchcock has been styling members of the tech and business industries for 25 years, convincing them to part with stained tees and ratty jeans and glow up enough to be prominent in the field without embarrassing anyone. 

“I want my clients to look like they don’t care,” said Hitchcock, adding that “There’s a difference between ‘not caring about fashion’ and ‘not caring about yourself.’ I want them to invest in themselves.”

She calls the aesthetic “effortless style”; clients should look clean and respectable, but not as if they’re actively trying. Her older clients want to look young and fit in, while the young ones want a more mature style. She charges a $2K consulting fee and $275 per hour after that. The only rules are: No khakis, and no flip-flops.

“Dressing effortlessly is a way to show off your shit, to demonstrate that you have brain power,” she added. “I certainly could dress them to a tee, but it isn’t what the look is about. Instead, I’m kicking up the techie a few notches and making it sexy.”

This is a stock image of 'coders,' but don't they look effortlessly stylish?

This is a stock image of ‘coders,’ but don’t they look effortlessly stylish?

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Hitchcock also helps with organization and grooming; it sounds like one woman taking on the work of the entire Queer Eye team, but Hitchcock often works on retainer (for around $10K a year), keeping up with her clients’ general lifestyle quality. She creates virtual closets and lookbooks and helps them plan what to wear at conferences or on vacation. She keeps track of every detail and sets reminders for when they’ll need new shoes or jeans to replace old versions.

And there’s at least one tech giant in the Valley who she thinks she could help immensely: Mark Zuckerberg.

“I really think he should try harder,” she said. “In my opinion, he needs to really mix it up with more modern outfits and colors, instead of being a dinosaur.”

If anything, that’s the best way to appeal to a high-level hero in Silicon Valley – compare him to something ancient.

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Disney fixes princess in ‘Wreck-It Ralph’ after whitewashing criticism

For once, it seems the story of a big Hollywood studio facing criticisms over poor representation ended with a happily ever after.

In the months since teasers for Wreck-It Ralph sequel, Ralph Breaks the Internet, started showing a Disney princess reunion scene, fans have been calling out the studio behind the movie for whitewashing one of its few princesses of color: Tiana from The Princess and the Frog.

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According to a statement from advocacy group Color of Change and a report in The Wall Street Journal on Thursday, Sept. 20, Disney actually listened and re-did her scenes.

When a new image of Tiana from Ralph surfaced back in May, fans quickly pointed to the dramatic difference between this 2018 version of the first black Disney princess versus her original design in 2008. Most notably, her skin looked several shades whiter and her corkscrew curls were reduced to messy tresses more akin to Merida’s from Brave.

Stranger still, previous images and trailers of Ralph Breaks the Internet depicted Tiana in much the same way as she appeared in her original movie. Then in August, Entertainment Weekly published new images of the princesses in a slumber party type scenario.

While all the Disney princesses’ appearances changed somewhat to fit the different animation style of Wreck-It Ralph, the more drastic changes made to Tiana invited criticisms of whitewashing and colorism.

For once, those critiques were met with actual change from the studio rather than half-assed excuses.

The Wall Street Journal reported that Disney went through the process of reanimating the scenes in question based on feedback from Tiana’s voice actress Anika Noni Rose, and representatives from Color of Change. The advocacy group, known for fighting against inequality and racism in portrayals of black characters in media, met with the animators and reviewed the changes to help ensure the problems were addressed properly.

One senior campaign director from Color of Change, Brandi Collins-Dexter, reportedly went to Disney’s headquarters, describing the changes to Tiana as giving her character, “darker hair and a wider nose and mouth.”

Color of Change president Rashad Robinson celebrated this rare win for positive representation in a tweet, writing:

“Princess Tiana has been restored to her original depiction. Now when Black girls watch #WreckItRalph2, they’ll see Tiana and other princess of color that actually looks like them on screen #BlackGirlMagic that Disney had restored “Princess Tiana’s image to that of an unapologetically black princess with full lips, dark skin and dark hair.”

Mashable has reached out to both Disney and Color of Change for confirmation or comment on the story, and will update this article with any responses.

Just watched the new Wreck It Ralph trailer and:

1. Thank you for making Princess Tiana her actual color again. Should’ve never changed that to begin with

2. Movie looks dope. Trying to go see it with somebody’s daughter

— Tittynope of Tolerance (@Only_After_Ours) September 21, 2018

It’s important to praise these vital steps in the right direction. But as some people pointed out online, examples like these are evidence of why diversity among animators, producers, and writers matters — especially at big studios like Disney.

Disney’s influence over young children and culture at large cannot be overstated. It is the studio’s responsibility to make sure its audience, which very much includes young black girls, see themselves represented accurately in the glamorous spotlight of a Disney princess. 

The company has made strides toward this in the past decade, with beloved hits like Moana adding to the diversity of the still predominantly white lineup of Disney princesses. Visibility matters, and as shown in the case of Tiana, the details of that visibility matter too. 

Hopefully in the future, more people of color will be in positions of power at the studio to ensure things like this are done right the first time around.

You can catch Ralph Breaks the Internet and the newly restored beauty of Tiana in theaters on Nov. 21.

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    Trump travel ban: Waiver process remains long, unclear

    Istanbul, Turkey – American Kathryn Balleh sang the country classic Jolene at a rooftop bar in Istanbul, while her Syrian husband Bashar Balleh strummed the guitar.

    She closed her eyes as she hummed the tune about a woman worried that Jolene may steal the man she cares for.

    The song transferred Kathryn to another place.

    “I’m begging you, please don’t take my man,” she sang, a hint of melancholy in her voice.

    Although Kathryn wasn’t worried about another person swooping and stealing Bashar’s heart, the song resonated in a different way.

    In June, the US Supreme Court upheld the Trump administration’s travel ban, barring nationals of six Muslim-majority countries from entering the United States.

    The ban put Kathryn and Bashar’s plans for moving to the US on hold, instantly thrusting them into the process of navigating the US immigration system, in hopes of obtaining a waiver for Bashar. But according to immigration lawyers and other advocates, the process remains long, unclear and uncertain.

    ‘No one wants to hire me because I’m Syrian’

    Kathryn and Bashar met at a jam session two months before the election of US President Donald Trump. 

    Bashar, a self-taught musician, joined the band, Country for Syria, which Kathryn’s roommate started. They love was nearly instant.

    Their relationship moved relatively quickly, partially because they knew the without a legal commitment they may be separated.

    “I’m Syrian and I can’t really go anywhere, and she’s American and the situation in Turkey was bad,” Bashar said, referring to the strained US-Turkey relations that began last year.

    “I thought maybe Kathryn would have to leave,” he added.

    Nearly two years later, Istanbul remains a temporary sanctuary for the Ballehs, as well as the band, albeit one fraught with political instability and a challenging environment for Syrians.

    Turkey is home to nearly 3.5 million registered Syrian refugees, most of whom are granted temporary protection status. On paper, it means access to housing, healthcare and the labour market. However the reality for many Syrians, even the select few who are legal residents in Turkey like Bashar, is quite different.

    “I’m applying, applying, applying [for jobs]. Nobody is getting back to me because I’m Syrian,” Bashar said.

    Bashar applied for a spousal visa in March 2017 [Sara Nasser/Al Jazeera] 

    According to the 26-year-old, the jobs Syrians can get are low-paying and require 12 hours of work a day. He has a heart condition so physical labour jobs are not an option.

    Bashar arrived in Istanbul in December 2014, leaving his family behind in the Syrian port city of Latakia. He started work as a musician at a restaurant for a boss who relished tormenting him being Syrian. “He would turn on the TV, the news. He would say, ‘Look, Bashar al-Assad is killing them. They all deserve to die, haha.’ And I can’t say anything,” he recalls.

    Bashar eventually quit. After months of not being able to find work, he made two attempts to go to Europe.

    During his first attempt, the boat Bashar was travelling in was attacked by individuals he assumes were pirates. The boat was rescued by the Turkish coastguard. On his second attempt, Bashar was kidnapped before the boat disembarked. When the police arrived, Bashar managed to escape from both the police and his kidnappers.

    Despite his harrowing ordeal, Bashar and Kathryn remain optimistic. They recognise their situation is one of relative privilege, when compared with the thousands of Syrians who have no possible option of going to the US.

    Unclear waiver process

    Under the third and most current version of the travel ban, the US said it would allow for case-by-base waivers for those who meet certain requirements, including being a spouse of a US citizen. 

    Additionally, the presidential proclamation, lists a number of vague guidelines, including that an applicant must demonstrate that he or she does not pose a threat to public safety and national security, would be caused “undue hardship” if not allowed entry to the US and that his or her admittance is in the nation’s entrance.

    Bashar applied for a spousal visa in March 2017, hoping to receive a waiver. He has an interview with consulate officials at the US embassy in Istanbul this week.

    According to a lawyer from the International Refugee Assistance Project (IRAP), there is no established clear procedure for how people can provide evidence that they qualify for a waiver.

    “We’re in the process of preparing what immigration attorneys are informally calling ‘waiver packets’ now,” said an IRAP lawyer, who spoke to Al Jazeera on the condition of anonymity due to the sensitivity of the cases involved.

    “Some embassies have allowed people to physically make a submission at the interview with a packet, some have accepted them by email … some have said they don’t accept any outside evidence … it has been really inconsistent at different locations.”

    The couple said the process for providing evidence for a waiver has been confusing and unclear [Sara Nasser/Al Jazeera]

    A major component of the Trump administration’s defence of the travel ban was that it offered a wide-ranging waiver process for individuals on a case-by-base basis. But the administration came under fire again in June after reports surfaced that just two percent of more than 27,000 visa applications of individuals from countries covered in the ban were granted waivers from December 8, 2017, through April 30 of this year. The reports added that 4,200 were still awaiting a determination on the waiver. 

    A spokesperson for the State Department told Al Jazeera that 1,428 applicants have been cleared for a waiver as of August 15, 2018.

    The spokesperson emphasised that there is no separate application for the waiver, adding that individuals should apply for the visa and disclose during the interview any information that would fulfil the waiver’s requirements. 

    But David Leopold, an immigration lawyer who represents several Syrians navigating the US immigration system, said that the US government is failing to provide any clarity on the process for how waivers are granted, which could be by design. 

    “I think that it was done on purpose because they don’t really want to let these families come together,” says Leopold. “I don’t think this administration values folks from countries that are not white and European 
 I think there’s a huge racial component to this, a huge anti-Muslim component.”

    In July, more than two dozen families, representing five countries affected by the ban, filed a lawsuit against the US government over its implementation of the ban the process for obtaining waivers. According to the complaint, the plaintiffs have had their denied or stalled despite meeting the criteria listed in the presidential proclamation.

    For now, the potential of waiver remains the Ballehs’ only hope of moving to the United States as a couple. If they are denied or the process takes too long, however, Kathryn said they will consider going to live with Bashar’s family in Syria.

    “Yes, it’s in a war, and yes, the economy is not in a good position,” she says, “but what’s more important in this world than being around people you love.”

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    Period apps will teach you more about your flow than sex ed

    The internet has changed how kids learn about sex, but sex ed in the classroom still sucks. In Sex Ed 2.0, Mashable explores the state of sex ed and imagines a future where digital innovations are used to teach consent, sex positivity, respect, and responsibility.

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    My period has always been something of a mystery. 

    For months at a time it will arrive as expected like clockwork, then it vanishes for what seems like an eternity, and on far less pleasant occasions, it has lasted for as long as 45 days thanks to birth control complications. 

    My period’s irregularities made period tracking apps so alluring to me when I first heard of them years ago. The idea of charting your period to the degree that you can predict when you’re most likely to PMS, or when you should be well stocked with tampons, seemed like the perfect way to figure this whole menstruation thing out once and for all. 

    I’ve been tracking my period off and on since 2015, and what I’ve learned from my period tracker app put my fairly progressive New York City health classes from high school to shame.

    These apps, while not perfect, are teaching many like myself more about menstrual cycles than sex ed ever did — or could.

    While the apps are by no means meant to replace sex ed, they can be helpful tools, especially when it comes to topics that sex ed tends to skip over.

    What even is a period tracking app?

    A period tracking app, is quite literally an app that tracks periods, well, really the menstrual cycle as a whole. They offer those who use them the ability to track a multitude of period symptoms, from fatigue to acne, in addition to the level of their flow — spotting, light, medium, or heavy — and their period’s length. 

    It’s estimated that 200 million people have downloaded period tracking apps, according to the BBC. And the “femtech” market is expected to reach $50 billion by 2025, consulting firm Frost & Sullivan told Elle.

    Period trackers can teach users about PCOS, endometriosis, and other lesser-known health issues 

    Delia Howe, who uses the Flo app to track her period, told me through a direct message on Twitter that Flo’s helpful articles and resources helped her discover that she has endometriosis. The gynecologic disorder can cause painful periods and long-lasting cramps, and often is not taught in sex ed, much like polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), which has similar symptoms. 

    “Sex ed told me periods hurt, that pain is normal. My tracker showed me that in fact it wasn’t normal,” Howe said. 

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    Many women like Howe are learning about these conditions for the first time thanks to their period tracking apps. 

    “Sex ed told me periods hurt, that pain is normal. My tracker showed me that in fact it wasn’t normal.” 

    Representatives at Clue, Dot, and Eve explained that their apps are designed to send health alerts to users if any unusual symptoms or patterns are detected. None of the apps make a diagnosis, but they do urge users to have a medical professional look at their collected data.

    Clue, Eve, and Glow inform users if they have symptoms that closely resemble endometriosis and PCOS.

    “We’ve seen about 10 percent of our users have been alerted for possible signs of endometriosis, which isn’t necessarily surprising, considering the incidents of endometriosis in the general population is about 10 percent,” Jennifer Tye, the COO of Glow said.

    Tye also recalled a woman who reached out to Glow to let them know that after using the app for three months she was alerted that she had signs of PCOS, something she suspected she had for years but her inklings had been dismissed by healthcare providers. After turning up to the doctor’s office with the data saved on her period tracker she was finally given the diagnosis she knew she had all along.

    An alert from Eve signaling to its user that their logged symptoms resemble those of endometriosis.

    An alert from Eve signaling to its user that their logged symptoms resemble those of endometriosis.

    Image: Eve/glow

    Another woman was able to identify the early symptoms of a Malignant Mixed Mullerian Tumor, thanks to Clue, Amanda Cormier an editor of Clue’s website said.

    “Before tracking it was hard to show or prove that you had these issues,” Cormier said. “But the data that users show to their doctors actually convinces them to take tests. It’s a way for people that experience cycles to advocate for themselves. It’s proof that the pain is real.”

    Personalized data teaches people about the nuances of menstruation

    In most sex ed classes you’re taught basic scientific facts about menstruation: it’s a 28-day cycle, you menstruate once a month for seven to 10 days, and yeah you may be cranky the week before. That’s about it.

    According to period tracker app representatives, nearly all of their users were unaware of how normal it is for a menstrual cycle to exist outside of the 28-day cycle.

    “We have had cases where people didn’t know their cycles were irregular, and on the flip side I would say sometimes people think their cycles are super irregular because their cycle is off by maybe a few days difference in length,” Leslie Heyer, one of the Dot app creators, said. 

    While cycles generally waver between 21 and 35 days, it’s not uncommon for their length to vary, and they can even change on a monthly basis. 

    Mary Gallagher, a certified midwife nurse in Portland, Oregon told me she encourages all of her patients to use the Clue app to keep track of their periods because most people have no idea what’s going on when it comes to their menstrual cycles.

    Gallagher also said the app is good for tracking numerous symptoms of PMS, and it’s a “really helpful tool that helps embody and encompass all of these aspects of women’s health that we ignore when we just talk about periods.”

    Marshall — a regular user of the Clue app who asked that her last name not be included — echoed Gallagher’s sentiments and said learning more about her PMS symptoms and when she can expect them has been one of the most helpful features of the app.

    “I’ve been taking care to track my PMS symptoms as soon as possible and my PMS cloud completely eclipses the whole cycle,” Marshall said. “And what I’ve learned is that I’m actually experiencing PMS for most of my cycle.”

    Users actually learn about fertility, not just how to avoid pregnancy

    Sex ed is often focused on how to avoid getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant. Young women are taught that they can get pregnant at any point during their cycle — but this is not the case, according to the trackers. 

    This is not to say that the widely criticized “rhythm method” is an ideal form of birth control. The app Natural Cycles which follows this method was severely chastised after it caused 37 unintended pregnancies. But most women are more likely to conceive within a slim window of time during a menstrual cycle known as ovulation. 

    While there is a good chance you could get pregnant right after your period, getting pregnant during your period is highly unlikely, according to Parents. Truly the best time to conceive is when you’re ovulating, and this generally occurs 14 days before your next period. 

    “I understand why adults share that [pregnancy can happen any time] and why kids get that message, and I think from using fertility apps and particularly with Dot we’ve heard from a lot of people who said, you know I can’t believe no one explained this to me, or that I didn’t understand that there’s only a certain period of time during my cycle where I can get pregnant,” Heyer, the Dot co-creator, said.

    The problem with withholding this general information about fertility and conception reveals itself later in life when people with cycles attempt to get pregnant and find it to be a more difficult process than they were led to believe.

    “When we would talk to lots of women who were trying to conceive, our users were telling us all that they were taught in sex ed was how not to get pregnant and that meant that for the most part was don’t have unprotected sex,” Tye said. 

    Where they fall short

    A number of health care professionals have said that period tracking apps aren’t truly reliable predictors of menstrual cycles and have warned users to be wary. According to a 2017 University of Washington study that surveyed 687 people and looked at 2,000 app reviews, period tracking apps — that include Clue, Eve, Glow, Period Tracker and Period Pad — mainly serve women that have a regular cycle, but aren’t as useful to women with irregular cycle patterns.

    Period tracking apps have also been criticized for being too pink, pushing traditional gender norms, and using heteronormative language, according to Motherboard. Clue and Spot On have made an effort to use more inclusive language to represent trans men, among others, but they’re still not free of critique. 

    Then there’s the debate about whether the apps should be able to share private data. Chupadados, a Brazillian tech site, reported that data from a number of apps, including Glow and the apps that fall under its umbrella (Eve, Glow Nurture, and Glow Baby) can sell user data to third party companies (like advertisers), when users agree to its terms and conditions. Aware of this problem, Clue pledged to never release private user data to a third party. 

    Despite the issues facing period tracking apps, they still stand to provide users with a wealth of information.

    Which period trackers contain the most information?

    After testing four of the most recommended period apps based on reviews from Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and Wired: Clue, Spot On (Planned Parenthood’s period tracking app), Dot, and Eve, I found each app had slightly different platforms, but they all had the ability to log symptoms of PMS, period lengths, discharge types, sleep, and frequency of sex. They were all fairly intuitive and easy to use, but Spot On and Clue provided users with the most valuable information. 

    Spot On, makes it easy to answer any sex or reproductive questions you can think of, and users can even arrange to live chat with a sex educator. Clue provides similarly useful information on a wide scope of topics. 

    While Eve provides a lot of useful information in the form of pop-up factoids and quizzes, I felt that its community section, where all users are free to discuss ailments and personal issues, was a little confusing. Sure, community is important, but there are enough forums and blogs that spread misinformation online — why create another space for it?

    Dot is a useful tool if your main concern when tracking your period is, well, tracking your period. Other than that you’ll find little information to broaden your sexual or reproductive knowledge.

    Period apps can’t replace sex ed, but they can add to it

    Ideally, women, men, and everyone in between should learn about the many complexities of menstruation in their general sex ed classes, but the reality is it’s unlikely that will ever happen.

    Karin Coyle, chief science officer at ETR — a research, training, and education development non-profit that focuses on subjects like sexual and reproductive health, in addition to smoking, drugs, and wellness in schools — told me that with so much content to deliver to students in such limited time, it’s doubtful that any classroom could cover as much nuanced-ground as a period tracker. But, Coyle said she feels that using a tracker to enhance or build on what’s learned in the classroom can be an effective and positive tool.

    “If you have an app like this that prioritizes education it may be the most broad and deep sex ed some people ever have.”  

    “I think when there’s these other tools that allow you to dive in and learn about your body, as long as they are very up front about their limitations, what they are and what they’re not, then I think it’s a great way to enhance and learn more, and reflect more on your body as an individual,” Coyle said.

    Tracker apps can also be a valuable resource for people without significant access to sex ed.

    “It can provide an early diagnosis, and it can be a sex ed resource for people who don’t have access to it,” Clue’s Cormier said.  

    While the efficacy of using period apps to accurately predict your period and thwart pregnancy continues to be debated, it’s clear that period trackers have the ability to teach users significant lessons about menstruation, women’s health, and their bodies. 

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    Iran’s Revolutionary Guard vows to avenge Ahvaz attack

    Iran’s Revolutionary Guard has vowed to revenge the attack on a military parade that killed 29 people, including the four attackers, and wounded 70 others.

    The Iranian elite force, in a statement on Sunday, said that those behind Saturday’s attack will face a “deadly and unforgiving revenge in the near future”.

    Iranian officials blamed two Gulf states and the United States for the attack, accusing them of backing the Arab separatist al-Ahvaziya armed group which claimed responsibility for the attack.

    President Hassan Rouhani vowed to deliver a “crushing response“, while Iran’s Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei linked the attack with the US and its “allies in the region”.

    The country’s foreign minister, Mohammad Javad Zarif, said “regional terror sponsors” were responsible for the attack, adding he held “their US masters accountable”.

    While Iranian officials have not directly named the Gulf states, their comments are believed to be directed at Saudi Arabia, the UAE and Israel, which all have hostile relations with Iran and have promised to counter its influence in the region, including inside the country.

    “These terrorists … were trained and organised by two … Gulf countries,” Iranian military spokesperson Abolfazl Shekarchi told the official news agency IRNA.

    “They are not from Daesh (an Arabic acronym for the Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant) or other groups fighting [Iran’s] Islamic system … but are linked to America and [Israel’s intelligence agency] Mossad.”

    The UAE has denied Iranian allegations alluding to its involvement in training troops that claimed the attack in southwestern Iran.

    “The formal incitement against the UAE from within Iran is unfortunate, and has escalated after the Ahvaz attack,” UAE’s Minister of State for Foreign Affairs Anwar Gargash said in a tweet.

    “The UAE’s historical position against terrorism and violence is clear and Tehran’s allegations are baseless.”

    The US condemned the attack, with its UN envoy saying it took place because Rouhani has “oppressed his people for a long time”.

    The attack in Ahvaz came as the country marked the anniversary of the start of its 1980-1988 war with Iraq. Four gunmen dressed in military uniform sprayed bullets into a crowd of marching soldiers, bystanders and government officials watching from a nearby stand. 

    Al Jazeera’s Zein Basravi, reporting from the capital Tehran, said the “attack for many Iranian communities was very personal”.

    “What we are hearing from the revolutionary guards is that they will carry out a swift and violent response, and that is something unique,” he said.

    Little is known about the al-Ahvaziya group, but Islamic Revolutionary Guards Corps (IRGC) spokesperson Ramezan Sharif told ISNA it was “funded by Saudi Arabia”.

    ‘Fight inside Iran’

    Mostafa Koshcheshm, a Tehran-based political commentator and journalist, told Al Jazeera that the al-Ahvaziya movement had been “nurtured, supported, and trained by Saudi Arabia”.

    “It’s been operating for the past several years. They are looking to cut off and separate Iran’s energy-rich province of Khuzestan from Iran, which is exactly what Saddam Hussein wanted to do,” said Koshcheshm.

    “They call themselves Arab nationalists but we know they have very intimate ties to the Mujahedin-e-Khalq,” he said referring to an Iranian exiled dissident group accused of killing thousands of Iranian civilians and officials. 

    Ahvazi Arabs are a small minority in mainly ethnic Persian Iran but sit on top of the bulk of the country’s 137 billion barrels of oil.

    They are divided over whether they want independence or devolution of power within a democratic, federal Iran, but at their most ambitious, some Ahvazi groups want an independent state stretching beyond the borders of Khuzestan, which sits at the head of the strategic Gulf waterway and shares a border with Iraq.

    In an interview with Saudi-owned TV channel MBC last year, Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman said that the kingdom would take the fight “inside Iran”.

    “We won’t wait for the battle to be in Saudi Arabia,” he said. “Instead, we will work so that the battle is for them in Iran.”

    Iran summons ambassadors

    Within hours of Saturday’s attack, Iran summoned diplomats from Denmark, the Netherlands, and the UK, with IRNA reporting they were “informed of Iran’s strong protests over their respective countries’ hosting of some members of the terrorist group”.

    Iran’s Foreign Ministry spokesperson Bahram Qasemi called on Denmark and the Netherlands to extradite the “perpetrators and their accomplices” to stand trial, IRNA reported.

    “It is not acceptable that the European Union does not blacklist members of these terrorist groups as long as they do not perpetrate a crime on … European soil,” Qasemi was quoted as saying.

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    Christine Blasey Ford will appear Thursday, her lawyers said, but some details are unresolved, including who will question her.

    Christine Blasey Ford is readying for public testimony on Thursday morning about her sexual assault allegation against Brett Kavanaugh, although several central elements of the hearing remain unresolved in talks with the Senate Judiciary Committee, her attorneys said on Sunday.

    Ford’s lawyers and the bipartisan staff on the Judiciary panel held a second call in two days on Sunday as they continued to hash out details of a hearing later this week that promises to have seismic consequences for Kavanaugh’s Supreme Court nomination, as well as the turbulent electoral landscape weeks away from the November midterms.

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    The call lasted about an hour, according to a source familiar with the conversation, and resulted in a timing confirmation for 10 a.m. Thursday. The committee officially notified senators on Sunday afternoon that the hearing would take place at that time.

    But no firm decision has been reached on whether Republicans would use staff attorneys to question Ford about her claim that Kavanaugh tried to force himself on her more than 30 years ago — an approach the GOP is considering in order to avoid the perilous prospect of Ford getting grilled by its all-male Judiciary Committee membership, some of whom are publicly skeptical of her account.

    “We were told no decision has been made on this important issue, even though various senators have been dismissive of her account and should have to shoulder their responsibility to ask her questions,” Ford’s attorneys, Debra Katz, Lisa Banks and Michael Bromwich, said in a statement on Sunday. “Nor were we told when we would have that answer or answers to the other unresolved issues.”

    The committee’s Republican staff told Ford’s lawyers on Sunday that the committee would decide which witnesses appear, who questions them and in what order. The GOP told Ford’s team that those terms were “non-negotiable,” according to an email obtained by POLITICO.

    “The chairman asked me to relay again that he will do everything in his power to provide a safe, comfortable, and dignified forum for Dr. Ford to testify,” the committee’s Republican counsel told Ford’s lawyers. “But again, as with any witness who comes before the Senate, the Senate Judiciary Committee cannot hand over its constitutional duties to attorneys for outside witnesses.”

    Three witnesses who Ford has recounted were there, Leland Keyser, Mark Judge and Patrick J. Smyth, have all told the committee they have no information on the party where the alleged assault occurred.

    The committee has sought to accommodate another request from Ford’s legal team by giving her dedicated security for the hearing, which would include breaks at 45-minute intervals, according to the source familiar with Sunday morning’s conversation. The source also said Ford’s legal team indicated willingness to give ground on another item the committee had insisted on, slating Ford to testify first even though she had asked that Kavanaugh go first.

    Ford’s lawyers continue to call for subpoenaed testimony from Mark Judge, the third individual she has said was in the room during the alleged assault, and have also requested testimony from the examiner who administered a polygraph test to her as well as trauma experts, according to the source. Republicans have not budged from their plans for the hearing to include just two witnesses, however — Kavanaugh and Ford — which leaves Democrats to consider ways to amplify the perspective of other witnesses outside the formal hearing process.

    The progress toward a Kavanaugh-Ford hearing came as Senate Republicans signaled earlier on Sunday that while they were willing to accommodate her, it would take a lot more than an uncorroborated, 36-year-old allegation to sink his Supreme Court bid.

    “She will be treated respectfully, but she will be challenged, just like Judge Kavanaugh,” said Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-S.C.), who sits on the Judiciary Committee. However, he added, “Unless there’s something more, no, I’m not gonna ruin Judge Kavanaugh’s life over this.”

    In an interview on “Fox News Sunday,” Graham told host Chris Wallace that the committee’s chairman, Sen. Chuck Grassley (R-Iowa), had “bent over backwards” to set up a hearing with Kavanaugh and Ford, who has accused the high court nominee of sexually assaulting her at a party when the two were in high school.

    Referring to the push by Ford’s legal team for outside witnesses and no use of Republican staff attorneys to question her, Graham added: “If they continue to contest those two things, there won’t be a hearing.”

    Senate Republicans insist they’ve dealt with the sexual assault allegation in a serious, fair manner, delaying a planned committee vote earlier this month as the panel negotiated a hearing shortly after Ford publicly identified herself as the author of a confidential letter sent to Sen. Dianne Feinstein (D-Calif.), the top Democrat on the committee, in July.

    But Republicans have rejected Ford’s and Senate Democrats’ calls for an FBI investigation into the allegation, despite the bureau’s 1991 investigation into Anita Hill’s claims of sexual harassment against Clarence Thomas during his Supreme Court confirmation.

    Sen. Patty Murray (D-Wash.) said Senate Republicans had set up a “he said, she said” hearing.

    “What we’re going to have is, do you believe her or do you believe him?” she said on NBC’s “Meet the Press.” “That is exactly why we have been pressing for an FBI investigation that should only take a few days, so there are other facts out there, that there are other witnesses.”

    Sen. David Perdue (R-Ga.) argued, however, that the FBI has already conducted six investigations into Kavanaugh. “Their role in this case is not to determine who’s telling the truth,” Perdue said of the FBI on “Meet the Press.” “It’s to make sure that the Senate has the information. And right now, the only people that are going to determine who’s telling the truth in this issue are the United States senators.”

    Both parties have seized on revelations that none of the four individuals Ford has said were at the party remember being there. Leland Keyser on Saturday denied knowing Kavanaugh or having any recollection of attending a party or gathering where he was present. Patrick J. Smyth said last week that he had “no knowledge” of the party, and Mark Judge, who was reportedly in the room when the attack occurred, has said he has “no memory” of the alleged episode.

    Senate Minority Whip Dick Durbin (D-Ill.) said “it’s no surprise” that people who may have been in the house but weren’t assaulted themselves don’t remember a scene from three dozen years ago. And he acknowledged in an interview with ABC’s “This Week” that there’s “probably not” any way to find out what truly happened. But he cited as evidence of her credibility Ford’s willingness to come forward knowing how it would negatively affect her and her family.

    “What in the hell did she have to gain by doing this?” Durbin said. “At this point, she’s faced death threats, her family has been moved out of their home, they’re worried about the safety of their children, they’re concerned about security at the hearing.”

    But Graham maintained that the allegation was too old for a criminal trial, too uncertain for a civil lawsuit and too uncorroborated for a warrant.

    “Sometimes people are accused of things they didn’t do,” he said. “It is very true that a lot of women get abused and take it to their grave, and every now and then you have a situation where people provide inaccurate information.”

    Democrats indicated that they would press Kavanaugh on his teenage drinking habits. “I would be wanting to hear what kind of environment it was in high school,” Sen. Mazie Hirono (D-Hawaii) said on CNN’s “State of the Union.” “Apparently, there was a lot of drinking and partying going on. This is why we need an investigation.”

    Durbin echoed that alcohol consumption was “certainly relevant to the whole conversation.” And he is holding out hope that this week’s hearing isn’t just a formality Republicans are going along with before voting “yes” on Kavanaugh.

    “Members of the committee on both sides want to be fair — at least I hope they do — want to be fair to both,” Durbin said. “I have Republican senators who have reached out to Democratic senators and assured them that they are looking to this as a kind of a determination as to how their final vote will be cast.”

    Sens. Susan Collins (R-Maine), Lisa Murkowski (R-Alaska), Jeff Flake (R-Ariz.) and Bob Corker (R-Tenn.) are the GOP lawmakers to watch. Collins and Murkowski are moderate Republicans who could oppose Kavanaugh over his abortion views and could also be swayed by Ford’s and Kavanaugh’s testimony to vote against him. Flake and Corker, who are retiring, are both critics of President Donald Trump and called on Republicans to delay Kavanaugh’s confirmation to allow Ford to testify.

    “Just remember, this Senate Judiciary Committee, the composition is 11 Republicans, 10 Democrats,” Durbin said. “If one Republican senator should decide that Dr. Ford’s allegations, assertions, are true and that they are serious, it could make a big difference in the nomination of Brett Kavanaugh.”

    Burgess Everett contributed to this report.

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