Juventus soccer star Cristiano Ronaldo took to Instagram Live on Sunday to call a 2009 rape allegation against him “fake news.”
According to Maya Oppenheim of the Independent, Ronaldo added, “They want to promote my name. It’s normal. They want to be famous to say my name, but it is part of the job. I am a happy man and all good.”
Ronaldo was responding to a report in German magazine Der Spiegel in which 34-year-old Kathryn Mayorga said he raped her in a Las Vegas hotel room nine years ago.
PerBBC, Ronaldo reportedly reached a $375,000 settlement with Mayorga in 2010 in exchange for agreeing to never go public with the allegations.
Mayorga’s lawyers are reportedly attempting to void the non-disclosure agreement.
According to Oppenheim, Ronaldo has denied the allegations and said the sex with Mayorga was consensual.
Ronaldo’s lawyers released a statement calling Der Spiegel‘s reporting “blatantly illegal” and saying they will seek “moral damages in an amount corresponding to the gravity of the infringement, which is probably one of the most serious violations of personal rights in recent years.”
The 33-year-old Ronaldo is in the midst of his first season at Juventus after spending the previous nine campaigns at Real Madrid.
He is a five-time winner of the Ballon d’Or, the award given to the top soccer player in the world, andForbeslisted him as the third-highest paid athlete in the world this year with an income of $108 million.
Humans kill an estimated 100 million sharks annually and experts have warned that certain species face extinction if the trend continues.
Consumption of shark fin soup, primarily in China and Vietnam, is the biggest reason behind the massive figure, contributing directly to the killing of almost half of the sharks, according to reports.
The soup was historically limited to banquets and weddings hosted by the elite in China but the economic boom in the country made it accessible to a wider public, resulting in its consumption doubling between 1985 and 2001.
To meet the rise in demand, shark hunting increased drastically, with most hunters throwing the shark back in the water after chopping off its fin.
“Shark meat tends to be of low value but shark fin soup is what’s driving the industry and became the single biggest reason behind such huge figure,” Mark Meekan, marine biologist at the Australian Institute of Marine Science, told Al Jazeera.
“Sharks don’t have the biology to sustain high levels of fishing. They grow slow, have relatively few young ones and take a long time to mature. If you fish them hard, the population collapses.”
Consumption of shark fin soup doubled in China between 1985 and 2001 [Chaiwat Subprasom/Reuters]
Hong Kong is the main port of entry for about half of all globally traded dried shark fins, according to Yvonne Sadovy from the Swire Institute of Marine Science.
Almost 33 percent of the shark fins for sale in Hong Kong were from species listed as Threatened by the International Union for Conservation of Nature.
Taking notice
The depleting shark numbers and pressure by marine life activists have, however, forced people to take notice.
The Chinese government has now banned shark fin soup at state banquets and Air China forbids transport of shark fins on its airplanes.
More than 20 countries placed bans or restrictions on shark finning. The list includes the United States, whose president Donald Trump reportedly had shark fin soup at a state dinner in Vietnam last year.
According to WildAID, shark fin consumption in China has reduced by 50 to 70 percent since 2011. The China Seafood Logistic and Processing Association reported shark fin imports decreased by 81 percent from 2011 to 2014.
Earlier this month, Hong Kong’s largest restaurant group Maxim’s announced it would stop serving shark fin from January 2020.
In India, shipment totaling eight tonnes of shark fin was confiscated en route to China and Hong Kong this month. The shipments were worth more than $6.2m and authorities estimated between 15,000 and 16,000 sharks were killed for it.
Hunters chop off the fins before throwing the shark back in the water [Beawiharta/Reuters]
Despite intervention by various governments, sharks are being killed at a higher rate than what its population grows at.
A report in Marine Policy revealed that global shark catch has more than doubled to 1.4 million tonnes in the last six decades, threatening almost 60 percent of shark species.
“Sawfish, a very distinctive species of ray, used to be abundant throughout the world’s oceans. Now, in Central America, they can no longer fulfill their ecological function and are teetering on the verge of extinction,” said Rachel Graham, founder of the NGO MarAlliance.
“These animals maintain the health of rivers and coasts and now only exist in few pockets around the world.
If you take out a top-order predator, you have a population explosion for other species
Mark Meekan
“The problem is that anybody can put a net out. That is what has led to the demise of so many sharks and rays. Not all are potential targets. Some are by-catch as well. But if we get rid of, or at least restrict, the use of nets, we can reverse the downward trend.”
Nets, added Graham, was the main fishing gear that was leading to the extinct and threatened status for nearly a quarter of all sharks and rays.
Meanwhile, Meekan said that reduction in shark population will create an imbalance in the oceans.
“The top-order predators regulate the abundance and behaviour of species lower down the food chain. If you take that out, you have a population explosion for other species. You create all sorts of problems,” he said.
Effect on tourism revenue
In addition to marine life, the killings of these sharks are also affecting the tourism industry.
According to Graham from MarAlliance, almost 600,000 people went out looking for sharks as a form of tourism in 2013, generating more than $314m in revenue.
“The study’s scientists projected that revenue was expected to double in the next two decades,” said Graham. “But it can only double if people have something to see. Some species of sharks and rays have a reproduction pause of up to five years.
“We need live sharks and rays for healthy coasts, seas and fisheries, even if much of the world doesn’t realise it yet”
Shark-related tourism generated more than $314m in revenue in 2013 [Bobby Yip/Reuters]
Nik Walsh, founder of the White Shark Diving Company in South Africa, remembers marine biologists talking about 10,000 to 15,000 great white sharks along the country’s shores in 1991. Now, they are estimated to be between 300 and 600.
“We have a huge problem on our hands,” said Walsh, who also runs a research institute to look into conservation and protection of sharks. “There’s no doubt that the decline is anything less than a disaster. I blame humans for it – over-fishing, nets and poachers.”
According to Walsh, the interest in shark tourism is still on a rise but with a declining population, it may affect tour operators across the world.
“In the long-run, companies will shut down if there are no sharks,” said Walsh. “No matter how good the trips are, if there are no shark sightings, you will get bad reviews. We have started giving free trips if a shark is not spotted on the tour.”
Conservation
Meekan reckons investing in shark conservation is a worthy move for governments that rely on shark tourism as a significant source of income.
In The Bahamas, he said, shark diving generated $800m over 20 years and raised the value of sharks as renewable resource compared with fishing. In Australia, the industry is estimated to bring in more than $25.5m annually.
Shark sanctuaries are being established on small island nations for protection and also encourage eco-tourism, direct spending on which amounts to more than $6bn a year now.
Shark tourism companies operate in more than 29 countries, including Fiji where 78 percent of all divers visiting the country in 2010 engaged in shark-diving activities. Direct taxes as a result of those activities fetched the government approximately $5.9m.
Tourists visiting the town of Gansbaai in South Africa, where Walsh’s business is based, to view the great white sharks make up more than half of local business sales
Despite the fall in population, Walsh is hopeful conservation efforts will bear fruit and the education tours will make people more informed.
“We are doing a hell of a lot despite the lack of funding and resources,” said Walsh. “We take classes in schools, raise funds for external conservation and research programmes and hope to have an eco-friendly barrier instead of nets along our coastline.
“I don’t know what the future holds but raising awareness is vital for the sustainability of any apex predator.”
Illegal fishing is also a big contributor to the decline in shark population around the world [Ismail Taxta/Reuters]
This post is part ofScience of Sci-Fi, Mashable‘s ongoing series dissecting the science (or lack of science) in our favorite sci-fi movies, TV shows, and books.
Some days are so damaging to your faith in humanity, you may find yourself idly wishing for the cleansing global firestorm that would follow an impact from the kind of asteroid that killed off the dinosaurs 65 million years ago.
If that’s the case, then astrophysicist and planetary scientist Michael Busch has some bad news. Over the last couple of decades, telescope-watchers like him have done such a good job of detecting and tracking the orbits of all possible extinction-level rocks out there that we can now say with confidence that none will hit us, at least not in the next 860 years.
“We think we’ve discovered everything out there that’s larger than 1 km across,” Busch, who has been tracking asteroids since 2005, told me from his office in Mountain View, California. “Anything smaller than a kilometer would only cause regional destruction.”
For comparison, the dinosaur killer that landed in Mexico was a whopping 10 to 15 kilometers wide.
C’mon, really, everything has been logged? Well, Busch concedes, “it’s possible there may be one or two behind the sun” where we can’t see them with current telescope technology. But the rocks would have to have been hiding there for the past decade, which is highly unlikely.
And what do we get in 860 years’ time? A puny rock called 1950 DA, which is a mere 1.1 kilometers across, and according to NASA models has at best a 0.3 percent chance of hitting the Earth in 2880. We don’t know exactly where yet, because climate change is altering the Earth’s rotation by tiny amounts — and on a timescale of 9 centuries, that change matters.
The next frontier for scientists like Busch is finding all space rocks larger than 100 meters in diameter — the kind that “if it fell on a city, there’s no more city,” he says.
But even if a potential city-buster lurks out there in the darkness, that still means we have to reset our cultural expectations of total planetary apocalypse — which have been stuck in the same place for the last 20 years, largely thanks to Hollywood.
In ‘Deep Impact’, astronauts attempt to plant nuclear bombs aboard a comet heading for Earth — utterly unnecessary, according to experts.
Image: paramount pictures/Getty Images
Old-school end of the world
In 1998, two asteroid disaster movies collided on the screen at roughly the same time. First came Mimi Leder’s Deep Impact, which we might best describe as blue-state America’s vision of an impact event. It was the somber, serious version, starring an MSNBC reporter and lots of government officials, including President Morgan Freeman.
And then there was Michael Bay’s Armageddon — an asteroid movie for the red states. Ignoring science, Bay casually devastated New York and Paris with a meteor shower (take that, liberal elites!). The rest of the movie focused on Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck and a couple Space Shuttles’ full of roughnecks, who blast off to kick some asteroid ass with an all-American H-bomb.
“Every time I give a public talk about asteroids, someone jokes about Bruce Willis.”
This was so unrealistic that Bay had to add a disclaimer in the credits that though he had consulted with NASA, the space agency did not endorse his story. Many years later, scientists calculated that for the movie’s plot to work — the H-bomb splitting the Earthbound asteroid in two with enough energy to completely change the course of the two chunks — it would have to be a billion times more powerful than the largest H-bomb ever built.
Not surprisingly, it is the unserious Armageddon vision that persists in our cultural imagination.
“Every time I give a public talk about asteroids, someone jokes about Bruce Willis,” Busch laments.
When it comes to deflecting those smaller city-busting asteroids, it turns out, an H-bomb can be a useful tool. But “blowing an asteroid in half is not how it’s done,” Busch says. “It’s a poorly-controlled process” — you wouldn’t be able to designate where the chunks of rock went.
If you’re going to make a fusion bomb do the work of predictable asteroid deflection, what you want to do is detonate it near one. Because it isn’t about the explosion, it’s about the waves of radiation that come in its wake. “What matters for an asteroid is the X-rays,” Busch says. “They’d vaporize one whole side of the asteroid, just turn it into a cloud of gas” — and nudge the bulk of the rock off course.
But nobody’s going to make a Hollywood thriller about the sensible method of bending asteroid orbits to our will
That’s kind of a last resort option. Busch’s preferred method for asteroid deflection is what he calls a “gravity tractor.” If you simply park a spacecraft near an object like 1950 DA, then over a number of years the weak gravitational pull of the spacecraft itself would change an asteroid’s course enough to save the Earth.
But nobody’s going to make a Hollywood thriller about the sensible method of bending asteroid orbits to our will, Busch laments: “A gravity tractor wouldn’t look that exciting, because you’re basically sitting there with the motor running for 10 years.”
Morgan Freeman as president announces an extinction level event, which now unfortunately will never happen. Also unfortunate: Morgan Freeman is not the president.
Image: paramount pictures/Getty Images
Space rocks, the next generation
The fact that Busch is involved in the anti-asteroid effort at all says a lot about how we got to this terribly safe juncture. Technically he works for the SETI Institute, the goal of which is to use telescope time to look for alien signals from the stars.
But at a certain point, everyone’s just looking for stuff from the sky. And there’s been so much cross-pollination of asteroid science and research around the world in the last couple of decades, so much telescope-sharing, that it’s hard to say exactly how many people are involved in the effort to log and track dangerous rocks.
Back in the Armageddon years, there were “fewer people working on this full-time than work in the average McDonald’s,” Busch says. These days, “there’s a large international effort that happens to be below the radar of the daily news.” Some of it even recruited members of the public, as in the game-like project known as Asteroid Zoo.
A big part of that effort, and a lot of the funding behind it, came in 2013. That was the year a meteorite hit Russia, landing near Chelyabinsk, 930 miles east of Moscow, and injuring 1,000 people. You probably remember the viral dash cam videos of the meteorite’s path across the sky.
Most of the injuries were caused by a shockwave of shattered glass after impact — which is why the smartest thing you can do if you happen to see a rock streaking through the sky is to get away from the windows.
The Chelyabinsk rock was a mere 20 meters wide. Which helps to make Busch’s point that the rocks that remain still pose a threat, even if they aren’t going to be ending human civilization any time soon.
In fact, he thinks it’s high time Hollywood made a more realistic film — perhaps one about a 100-meter-wide city-killer landing on a major metropolis. “If we can get someone interested in that, I’m happy to advise,” Busch says.
The Pittsburgh Steelers are reportedly actively shopping running back Le’Veon Bell amid his holdout.
According to NFL Network’s Ian Rapoport, the Steelers are now the ones making calls:
Ian Rapoport @RapSheet
From @gmfb Weekend: The #Steelers are now activately shopping RB Le’Veon Bell, sources say, making calls and doing due diligence. A trade would be difficult, but not impossible. https://t.co/EltwpqYrNs
Rapoport noted that Pittsburgh’s high asking price of at least a second-round pick and a “good player” has prevented anything from getting done thus far.
Bell has yet to report to the Steelers this season after failing to reach an agreement on a long-term contract extension during the offseason.
Another potential sticking point is the team that acquires him cannot negotiate a contract extension until after the season. Bell can still become a free agent during the offseason if he reports by Week 11, meaning the team that trades for him may not have his services until then as well.
If a team does strike a deal for Bell, it will risk potentially having him for only seven games this season before he signs elsewhere in free agency.
Even if Bell is only a rental, though, a team would be getting arguably the best all-around back in the NFL. The 26-year-old is a three-time Pro Bowler who led the NFL in touches last season with 406 and finished with 1,946 yards from scrimmage and 11 touchdowns.
In Bell’s place, second-year back James Conner has rushed for 213 yards and three touchdowns while catching 15 passes for 139 yards. Although Conner has filled in admirably, he is averaging only 3.9 yards per carry, and the Steelers are 1-1-1 on the season.
As a doctor living and working in Gaza all my life, I thought I had seen it all. I felt I knew the limits of what Gaza can endure
But the last six months have been the most difficult I have experienced in my 15 years with MSF in Gaza. And I have lived and worked through three wars: in 2008, 2012 and 2014.
The human suffering and devastation I saw over the past few months have reached another height. The shocking volume of wounded has been overwhelming.
I will never forget Monday, May 14. In the span of 24 hours, the local health authorities recorded a total of 2,271 wounded, including 1,359 people injured by live ammunition. I was on shift that day with the surgical team of al-Aqsa hospital, one of the main hospitals in Gaza.
At 3pm we started receiving the first wounded from the demonstration. More than 300 arrived though the doors in less than four hours. I had never seen so many patients in my life.
Hundreds were lining up to get into the operating theatre; the corridors were full; everyone was crying, shouting and bleeding.
No matter how hard we worked, we could not cope with the huge number of injured. It was too much. Gunshot after gunshot, our team worked for 50 hours straight trying to save lives.
It brought back the memories of the 2014 war. But really, nothing could have prepared us for what we saw on May 14. And what we are still seeing today.
Each week new trauma cases continue to arrive, the majority of them young men with gunshot wounds to their legs with high risk of life-changing disabilities. MSF’s cohort of patients continues to grow and right now we are treating about 40 percent of the all wounded by gunshots in Gaza, who are over 5,000 people.
But the more we advance in treating these gunshot injuries, the more we see the complexity of what has to be done. It’s difficult, medically and logistically. The medical structures in Gaza are crumbling under the high demand for health services and ongoing shortages; a large proportion of the patients need specialised limb reconstructive surgical intervention, which means multiple surgeries. Some of these procedures are not currently possible in Gaza.
What terrifies me the most is the risk of infection. Osteomyelitis is a deep infection of the bone. If it goes untreated, it can lead to wounds that do not heal and increase the risk of amputation. These infections need to be treated urgently because they worsen quickly if medication is not introduced.
But the infection is not easy to diagnose and there is currently no structure in Gaza for analysing bone samples to identify it. MSF is working to set up a microbiology laboratory here, providing supplies and training, in order to be able to test bone samples for osteomyelitis. But once we are able to identify the infection, treatment requires a long and complex course of anti-biotics for each patient and repeated surgical intervention.
As a doctor, I travel all over the Gaza strip and I see more and more young men on crutches with external fixators on their legs or in wheelchairs. It’s increasingly becoming a normal sight. Many of them try to be hopeful and persevere, but I, as a doctor, know that their future is bleak.
One of the most difficult things in my work is having to talk to patients, most of them young men, knowing that they could lose their leg as a result of a bullet that has shattered their bones and future. Many of them ask me “Will I be able to walk freely again?”
Facing this question is very hard for me because I know that due to the situation we are working in, many of them will not be able to walk normally again. And it is my responsibility to tell them that we are doing our best, but the risk of them losing the injured leg is high.
To tell this to a young man with his life ahead of him is really difficult. And it’s a conversation I have had to have many times in recent months.
Of course, we continue to try to find a way to treat these people despite the hardships we face: overwhelmed hospitals and, because of the blockade, four hours of electricity a day, fuel shortages, depleted medical supplies, a lack of specialist surgeons and doctors, exhausted nurses and medics who have not being paid their full salaries for months on end, restrictions on patients leaving Gaza to receive medical treatment elsewhere and the list goes on.
This, while the socioeconomic situation around us continues to deteriorate on a daily basis. Now we see children begging in the street – something we never saw a year or two ago.
MSF is facing huge challenges and we cannot do it alone. We try. We push. We have to keep going. For me, it’s a question of medical ethics. These injured people must get the treatment they need.
Right now in Gaza, looking into the future is like looking into a dark tunnel and I’m not sure I can see a light at the end of it.
The views expressed in this article are the author’s own and do not necessarily reflect Al Jazeera’s editorial stance.
Editor’s note: The internet has changed how kids learn about sex, but sex ed in the classroom still sucks. In Sex Ed 2.0, Mashable explores the state of sex ed and imagines a future where digital innovations are used to teach consent, sex positivity, respect, and responsibility.
As a 12-year-old girl, I didn’t quite know what to make of the sensations that overcame me when I played Prince of Persia: Sands of Time.
It felt like butterflies, only they fluttered much lower in my stomach, rising like a hot wave all the way up my body. If I’d looked in the mirror, my cheeks would’ve flushed scarlet.
The Prince was my first-ever sexy male video game protagonist crush. But he was far from my last. A desire to bang virtual leading men became a common thread for most of my favorite and formative gaming experiences in girlhood.
But today, I recognize that this wasn’t just a horny young girl discovering the great and terrible power of hormones for the first time. This was how I made the hyper-masculine world of video games work for me.
My virtual thirstiness unwittingly allowed me to embed my own fantasies and desires into games, a medium otherwise dominated exclusively by the desires and fantasies of boys and men.
For those who don’t remember, 2003’s Prince of Persia starred a haughty, privileged, selfish Prince — at the exact moment when he loses everything. He partners with the badass Farah, a princess of India sold into slavery after her own home country was invaded and her family was killed, as well.
They work together, at first reluctantly, to end the evil that destroyed their worlds. The Prince’s voice-over narration frames their adventure throughout, recounting the story of their journey to an unknown listener sometime in the future.
But the Prince who narrates sounds like a different man than the arrogant (yet undeniably charming) boy we play in the first couple acts of the game. The Prince telling the story often sounds vulnerable, expressing feelings he wished he’d been brave enough to say in the moment. He’s even considerate and accommodating, dutifully telling his listener he’ll “start the story from here next time” every time you save your game file.
From the tender preteen years up through college (and to this day, if I’m being honest), I fell for countless others, too: Jak of Jak and Daxter II and III consumed the rest of my early fantasy sex life (take me now, Dark Eco Jak), only surpassed later by the long reign of the irresistible Ezio Auditore de Firenze from Assassin’s Creed, then eventually by the tragic family man John Marston in Red Dead Redemption (my taste in men evidently matured along with games as a medium).
In retrospect, I can identify what those dizzying, quivering flashes of heat threatening to overwhelm me while playing Prince of Persia were: a thirst, unleashing itself for the first time. It became a habit of mine to explore my nascent sexuality through the safe, removed, non-threatening distance of virtual and fictional worlds populated by hot protagonists.
Even at a young age, it wasn’t hard to tell that games and their protagonists were not made for me, or even with me in mind. I realized this long before I joined the gaming industry as a journalist, or understood anything about how games were made, or the boy’s club surrounding them, or its unfairness toward women and girls.
The games I grew up on tended to cater to the wants of a target demographic I was not part of: white, cis, heterosexual dudes. And their protagonists, embodying various male ideals, were specifically designed to give those presumed male players a power fantasy to identify with.
I saw little of myself represented in these gruff, brooding, problematic video game heroes. So instead, I got busy fantasizing about them.
I’m not alone, either.
Game designer Jane Jensen, the mind behind 1993’s Gabriel Knight franchise, defended her right to make games with mostly male characters in a 2014 blog post titled, ‘WRITING HOT MEN FOR GAMES? Yes, please.’
In response to a male reporter who asked why she didn’t write more female characters and role models for women players to identify with, she wrote:
“The answer was really pretty obvious — I don’t just write male characters, I write male characters who are hot simply because I enjoy it. And thus crumbles any illusion I have to be above gender. The truth is, when I write a male character I am writing him from a female perspective, as a kind of fantasy. And why not? Male designers create female characters who are male fantasies all the time.”
I’ve wrestled with my own thirsty use of a video game’s third-perspective camera to ogle at the butts of my favorite hot male protagonists — knowing that this is exactly what boys and men have done to Lara Croft. I question my desires for what are, objectively, pretty awful fictional men who perpetuate unhealthy notions of traditional masculinity.
But I’ve come to a few conclusions on why what Jensen and I are talking about is different from, say, zooming in on Lara Croft’s triangle breasts.
For one, women in game worlds are in large part treated as damsels or sex objects designed to attract the presumed male player. It matters that women and girls are not the kings of these virtual worlds, where every story beat, character, and heroic act is designed for our pleasure and entertainment. I mean, even for protagonists like Croft, her legacy is embroiled in a design intended to make players desire her rather than identify with her.
For another, I feel a lot less gross lusting after hot male protagonists when I know it is precisely their humanity that makes them worth fantasizing over. And that humanity is often counter to those unhealthy aspects of traditional masculinity.
In her guide to writing hot male protagonists that excite women, girls, and all others attracted to that gender, Jensen points to a few key rules of thumb.
First of all, “a nice ass goes without saying.” And, amen to that. But also she writes that, more times than not, we’re generally not into the stereotypical, hyper-masculine action hero Mr. Universe type — like a McCree from Overwatch or Kratos from the original God of War trilogy. Those are the men that heterosexual guys think we want, but really they’re just power fantasies of their own creation.
They tend to be too off-puttingly aggressive for young girls (think Edward from Twilight), and too brutish for most grown women (think Edward from Twilight). And more importantly, Jensen asserts, it’s personality (read: their humanity) that counts most in writing a truly hot male protagonist.
That isn’t to say that said protagonist can’t be some variety of asshole (they almost always are in games). But to win us over, “he needs to show vulnerability, be redeemable, and improve over the course of the story.”
Look at the vast difference between Kratos in his original trilogy, versus his reimagined 2018 iteration. He checks all those boxes (to some extent), and is not only a more compelling and human character for it, but also an attractive partner instead of the abusive, psychopathic, pathetic dickbag of pulsating testosterone from the early aughts.
At the end of the day, the reality is that even now, games are still largely being made for and by the same target heterosexual male demographic that did not include me or my desires as a young girl — or the desires of many other identities for that matter.
I would love to live in a world where I could see more of myself, my gender, and all others who’ve felt themselves ignored by video games. And slowly but surely, we’re getting there, with trailblazing big-budget titles like Uncharted: Lost Legacy and Horizon Zero Dawn.
In the meantime, while most big-budget games continue to presume a predominantly cis, heterosexual male player base, why not do the rest of us a favor? At the very least, make your protagonist worthy of our thirst. Or perhaps, even our love.
At the end of Prince of Persia: Sands of Time, you discover that the Prince has been recounting his tale to an alternate timeline version of Farah who never went on this journey with him — who does not know him, did not watch him grow through their ordeal, and bears no love for him.
That’s because she sacrificed herself to save him. And in return, he brought her back by sacrificing their love and reversing time to before any of it happened.
Suddenly, I realized why Prince of Persia: Sands of Time ignited my virtual sexual discovery like no game had before. It was because, all along, it had been a story told with a woman’s perspective and audience in mind.
This whole time, the Prince was telling this story to Farah, and by some extension, me. Maybe that’s why I felt so invited to bring my own desires into that game world.
Games are not usually bastions of exploration for anything other than a very narrow and juvenille definition of sexual titillation. The general public looks down on “basement dwelling teen gamers” who jerk off to Lara Croft or other objectified women in games.
But when you broaden the landscape of who games are for — if more games allowed for a wider breadth of identities, orientations, and fantasies — they could become powerful tools of sexual discovery.
Because early sexual education is always a bit juvenile. And maybe, being a bit juvenile doesn’t have to equate to being perverse.
If video games opened up their playgrounds to more people’s perspectives, we even might find that a bit of juvenile play can be the first step in owning one’s sexuality.
I recently did a straw poll of the women in my life and realised that I know more survivors of sexual assault than I do mothers.
The national statistics are staggering – according to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center, “one in three women … in the US have experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime.” US Department of Justice data shows that only 310 out of every 1,000 sexual assaults are reported to the police. That means two out of every three incidents go unreported. Often times, even when these incidents are reported, they’re not taken seriously.
I still can’t believe that this is the reality of most of the women I know. The sun will rise in the east, the sun will set in the west, you’ll get your period, and you’ll probably be sexually assaulted at some point in your life. That’s a raw deal.
But as I watched Dr Christine Blasey Ford give testimony about how Supreme Court nominee Brett Kavanaugh sexually assaulted her – a moment of reluctant unity for at least one third of women in the US – my mind was focused on the economic cost of sexual assault on women.
I asked myself: Is there a causal relationship between experiencing the event and aftermath of assault, and the lack of economic parity that exists between genders in the US and abroad? In addition to everything else that holds women back financially and professionally, could the prevalence of assault also help explain why women make up an infinitesimal margin of the ruling class and power elite? How do the long-term effects of surviving assault continue to impact survivors in every way, including achievement?
Let us take the case of Dr Ford, who had to put her mental, emotional, and physical safety on the line to report the sexual assault she suffered. During her testimony she was asked to discuss the short and long-term impacts of being a survivor. Dr Ford mentioned her first two “disastrous” years as an undergrad at University of North Carolina. Although she went on to earn a PhD, those disastrous times could have cost her academic career.
Imagine all the women who experienced life-long economic disadvantage from the devastating trauma brought on by assault. Perhaps due to the resulting anxiety and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), they are unable to go back to work or complete college, or even if they do, they subsequently struggle financially or are unable to advance in their careers.
In the simplest of terms, survivors and the subsequent decrease in accumulation of wealth they experience is lost human capital. As has been proven time and time again, the more capital that’s funneled into an economy, the more robust that economy. By allowing “boys to be boys” with impunity, we’re not only compromising on a social contract of civility, we’re actually preventing a third of the female population from fulfilling their economic potential, which is handicapping the American economy, plain and simple.
The research findings that are offered about the costs of sexual assault are in no way exhaustive, but they do offer a slice of the pie. For example, according to the Bureau of Justice Statistics, the total cost survivors incurred as a result of sexual assault was $18m in 2002. Adjusted to today, that number would probably be significantly higher.
The National Alliance to End Sexual Violence states “survivors who were sexually assaulted during adolescence have been found to have reduced income as adults, with an estimated lifetime income loss of $241,600.”
One study by the New York City Alliance Against Sexual Assault indicates that “one cause of reduced lifetime income is related to reduced education.” They contend that women who have survived sexual abuse are three times more likely not to complete high school, compared to women reporting no sexual abuse. But even if one graduates from high school and gets higher education, the financial burden of being a survivor remains significant.
Take me, for example. I – an upper middle-class coastal dweller and a woman of colour – am a two-time survivor. My first experience was when I was 9 or 10, I don’t recall. Yes, there is a journal with tearful scribblings, exact dates, and shameful admissions of something just not being right – I just can’t offer those details at present because I’m rage-writing this piece from an airplane on my way to a work trip. But it did happen. When I decided to confront this reality at 18, I was told I could either sweep it under the rug, I could come forth and shame my family and myself, or I could try therapy and hope for the best.
I paid a dear price for waiting so long to address my past – I paid in the form of PTSD, anxiety, and serious panic attacks. One statistic from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center reports that 81 percent of women are impacted by PTSD, post-incident. According to the same organisation, health care costs are 16 percent higher for women who were sexually abused as children. To sum it up, therapy costs money, and so does anxiety medication. It doesn’t end there.
I also pay a price for taking time off of work to attend these appointments, not to mention the time it takes to recover after a panic attack. That is time during which I’m not working and earning. For those of you who have experienced an authentic panic attack, you know what I’m talking about. For those of you who haven’t, it really does feel like you’re dying. And it’s hard to revive yourself afterwards – sometimes it takes days. And in this economy, time is money.
My second experience was later in life and did include an all-too-common mix of alcohol, drugs, and a romantic entanglement which make it harder for some to label the incident as rape. But when a woman says no (physically or verbally) and the incident happens anyway, the psychological toll is the same. Once again, I am paying a price – but there’s an economic angle to this too. Since the incident, I had upped my therapy to twice a week and was thinking of seeing someone for additional mental health assistance in the form of a psychiatrist. That all costs money.
After this incident occurred, I felt the same feelings I did as a child. I felt vulnerable, unsafe, confused, and a little less courageous. In turn, I felt slightly less emboldened to go after the things I want, the things I am interested in, the things I need to do to fulfill my life’s intention – and that includes my professional path.
I do think that as a result of what I went through, I was more compelled to go into non-profit work – to spend my days working towards a more equal world – as opposed to going into finance or consulting, paths that were also offered to me as a result of where I’m from and how much schooling I have been lucky enough to have.
I’ve learned through years of therapy that I have a deleterious tendency to help others before helping myself. And I am learning that the reason I’m like that is because this thing happened when I was younger; this thing that I couldn’t control, I’m now trying to “fix” it by working in non-profit and social justice.
Professional trajectories matter and going into social work or the non-profit sector oftentimes requires a secondary degree. Now on top of costs for therapy, costs for meds, you likely add on student debt. That’s a lot of money, that’s a lot of toll to pay forward for situations that you couldn’t control.
For the last ten plus years I’ve been threading the needle between advocacy and media, lending my voice to the voiceless, offering my time and intellect to somewhat intractable goals like achieving equality, liberty, and justice for all. I don’t do this because I’m a good person. I do it because it’s compulsive. I have to do it because of two reasons: If I don’t, then I am complicit in a system that is inherently and systematically unequal in relation to my gender and I do it because no one did this for me.
Which leads me to circle back to my thesis. Would it be better for me and maybe the economy if I worked in the for-profit sector? If I was in finance, consulting, or some other more lucrative field? If I made more money and didn’t have to account for the cost of being a survivor?
Why are women not running the world? Or at the very least occupying more positions of power and control? After witnessing this circus of a confirmation hearing, I am now convinced that the prevalence of assault could be a contributing factor.
Once again, not only is there a significant psychological and emotional toll to sexual assault, but there’s a literal economic toll. Being a survivor has hindered my economic growth, potential, and in turn, my economic health, and I’m pissed about it.
As I crest on my 34th turn around the sun, I’m reconsidering this path and I’m starting to adjust my professional trajectory for purely economic reasons. Only I have the agency to change my professional trajectory and become financially sound, but not everyone can do that. Plenty of more disadvantaged women struggle with the trauma, often cannot afford therapy or proper health care, and as a result are unable to emerge from the cycle of poverty they have been living in.
And in particular, women of colour survivors, living within a capitalist framework where most of us are statistically likely to make less than many of our white counterparts, suffer financially that much more.
If there’s something we should come away with from this hellish and insane news coverage of the Kavanaugh accusations, it is that sexual assault exacts a heavy toll not only on the women who have gone through it, but on our society as a whole. And it is time this becomes part of our national conversation.
The views expressed in this article are the author’s own and do not necessarily reflect Al Jazeera’s editorial stance.
Before she has sold one copy, Stormy Daniels has already broken a publishing record: the fastest publication of a book authored by a presidential mistress. Full Disclosure is scheduled to hit the shelves on Tuesday, the 621st day of the current administration, eclipsing Gennifer Flowers’ Passion and Betrayal by 211 days.
But how will Daniels’ book stand up when compared with the other works in the “kiss-and-tell” presidential canon? Will it prove to be as historically consequential as Judith Exner’s My Story? Will it carry as important a social message as did Nan Britton’s The President’s Daughter? Will it humanize the president as much as did Kay Summersby Morgan’s Past Forgetting or Gunilla von Post’s Love, Jack? Will it have as powerful a life lesson as did Mimi Alford’s Once Upon a Secret? Or will it be marred by reckless conspiracy theorizing, like Madeleine Duncan Brown’s Texas in the Morning and Flowers’ Passion and Betrayal? Most of all, will presidential historians and the general public believe that Full Disclosure is, as the title suggests, accurate?
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Of course, where Full Disclosure will stand in the eyes of history can’t be determined yet. Such are the risks of real-time publishing. If Stormy Daniels contributes to the downfall of the Trump presidency, then her perspective on the events that led to her legal crusade will be pored over for decades to come. If Trump survives politically, the whole matter might be relegated to a historical footnote. But the emotional heart of Full Disclosure stands on its own, and the book is sure to find an admirable place in the canon of presidential mistress memoirs.
At the center of every presidential mistress memoir is a plea to be believed. And most of the time, you should believe the women. The accuracy of these books—and yes, I’ve read them all—tends to hold up in the eyes of history. It took 88 years, but DNA tests showed that Britton was telling the truth when she said Warren Harding was the father of her daughter. Love letters revealed years after publication backed up the stories of Summersby’s wartime affair with Dwight D. Eisenhower and von Post’s pre-presidential fling with John F. Kennedy. Alford’s affair was documented in a 1964 oral history interview given by Kennedy’s deputy press secretary and publicized decades later by historian Robert Dallek.
Daniels is sharp enough to recognize why most people pick up books by presidential lovers. “Okay, so did you just skip to this chapter?” she begins Chapter 3, the one that describes in comically nonerotic detail the single instance she and Donald Trump are said to have had sex. But the book is as much a coming-of-age-in-the-porn-industry story as it is a presidential kiss-and-tell, and it packs a bigger emotional wallop than voyeuristic readers may expect.
Still, even when there’s proof of an affair, that doesn’t make a book, or a mistress, an unassailable source. No one can dispute that Flowers and Bill Clinton had an affair; Clinton himself admitted it in a deposition. But her claims that Clinton inhaled marijuana and used cocaine as an adult in Arkansas have not been confirmed anywhere else. And while Flowers quoted Clinton saying that Hillary has “probably eaten more pussy than I have,” there has never been any evidence that Hillary is a closeted lesbian.
Flowers casually speculated about other Clinton conspiracies. “Maybe [Vince] Foster knew too much” she mused about the White House aide and Clinton friend who committed suicide. “It had been reported that the state troopers who worked for Bill often threatened and roughed up Bill enemies,” she wrote without citing any actual reports. For one example, she pushed a tale that a man in her apartment building named Gary Johnson was savagely beaten after telling people he had video of Clinton visiting Flowers. This is one of the many far-fetched stories that swirl around anti-Clinton circles, but the fact-checkers at Snopes reported years ago that “we could find nothing on this incident or even this man’s life.”
Full Disclosure does not suffer from these flaws. In trying to cover her entire life story, Daniels achieves both literary highs and lows. It’s impossible not be affected by Daniels’ recollection of being repeatedly raped as a child for two years by a neighbor, then being pressured by her derelict mother to hide it from the police for fear it would lead the authorities to put her in foster care. And she comes as close as anyone has to successfully illuminating the emotional toll taken by harboring a presidential-level sex secret.
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The first presidential mistress book, The President’s Daughter, was published four years after the death of Warren Harding. It shocked the nation with its accusation that then-Senator Harding conceived Britton’s “love-child,” Elizabeth Ann, in his Senate office. It wasn’t widely believed at the time. But the 2015 DNA test and an analysis of Harding’s love letters to another mistress, by The Harding Affair biographer James David Robenalt, shows his travel schedule lined up with the dates and places in Britton’s account.
It’s worth reading the tell-all through modern eyes. Britton’s infatuation with Harding began in 1910 as a schoolgirl crush—when she was 14 in Marion, Ohio, and Harding’s sister Daisy was her teacher—and her worshipful appraisal never wavers. But today’s readers will be horrified at the development of their relationship.
When Britton’s father told Harding on a Marion streetcar that his young daughter was obsessed with his campaign, Harding replied, “Bring her into my office sometime!” A few months later, as Nan was sauntering home with a pail of milk, she crossed paths with Harding on the sidewalk. When their affair began seven years later, as Britton warmly recounts, Harding confided that his “desire to possess me had been born in his heart upon that occasion.”
In fall of 1916, Britton moved to New York City, and she wrote Harding, now a senator, for help finding a job. He proposed a meeting in a New York hotel, and “we had scarcely closed the door behind us when we shared our first kiss.” He recommended finding her a job in New York, not Washington, so “he would feel more at liberty to be with me.” She unwittingly made clear her emotional and intellectual youth when she asked Harding early in their relationship why people have navels. It fell to Harding to explain to her where babies come from.
Britton claimed she wrote the book to end the stigma of “illegitimate” births and to promote “legal and social recognition and protection of all children in these United States born out of wedlock.” Unable to find a willing publisher, Britton published it through her own “Elizabeth Ann Guild” and shared the profits with other unwed mothers.
Still, Britton understood that sex sells. On July 30, 1917, in a hotel room facing Broadway, she writes, “I became Mr. Harding’s bride—as he called me.” The moment was sullied when two men from a vice squad barged in the hotel room, but they let Harding off the hook once they recognized him. After Harding made it to the White House, he would bring her to a “small closet in the ante-room” and “many times in the course of my visits to the White House, and in the darkness of a space not more than five feet square, the President of the United States and his adoring sweetheart made love.”
Nearly 50 years would pass before another presidential mistress would write a tell-all book. Past Forgetting: My Love Affair with Dwight D. Eisenhower was written by Kay Summersby Morgan (with the help of ghostwriter Barbara Wyder) as she was dying of cancer and published posthumously in early 1977. The Irish-born Summersby was Eisenhower’s driver during World War II, and the only female member in the general’s tight-knit inner circle.
Eisenhower was attracted to her on the spot, but he kept his feelings in check for a year. When her fiancé, Dick Arnold, died in the war, Eisenhower delivered the news and comforted her, and she writes that she recognized that Ike knew her better than Dick ever would have. Soon after, Eisenhower’s feelings boiled over when Summersby tried to refuse the gift of a new uniform: “Goddamnit, can’t you tell I’m crazy about you?” Their first kiss “was like an explosion.”
Their physical relationship was limited, both by the demands of war and by Eisenhower’s erectile dysfunction. But apparently the relationship was emotionally significant. Harry Truman spilled, in an oral history published in 1973, that after the war ended Eisenhower wrote a letter to the Army chief of staff asking to be relieved of duty so he could get a divorce and marry Summersby. He was angrily denied permission, and the relationship faded. The Truman revelation wasn’t universally accepted at the time, but it prompted Summersby to tell her truth.
It’s too early to judge the accuracy of Stormy Daniels’ entire account, and Gennifer Flowers’ credibility doesn’t hold up well next to that of Nan Britton and Kay Summersby. But none of them scrapes bottom like Madeleine Duncan Brown. In Texas in the Morning, Brown not only alleges a 21-year affair with Lyndon Johnson, but she also claims he’s the father of her youngest son, despite a failed paternity suit. And for good measure, she throws in that he had John F. Kennedy killed.
Brown claims to have been at a party the night before the assassination that also had Johnson, Richard Nixon, J. Edgar Hoover and several wealthy Texas oilmen on the guest list. After a closed-door meeting during the party, Johnson re-emerged to “growl” in Brown’s ear: “After tomorrow, those goddamn Kennedys will never embarrass me again. That’s no threat, that’s a promise.” Such charges have made Brown’s book required reading in Kennedy assassination conspiracy circles but have not endeared it to reputable historians.
I wish Texas in the Morning were more credible, because it provides the most comically unromantic pornographic passages of the presidential mistress memoir genre to date. Only Daniels’ description of sex with Trump as “getting fucked by a guy with Yeti pubes and a dick like the mushroom character in Mario Kart” comes close. According to Brown, Johnson engaged in atrocious pillow talk, such as “I met a reformed cannibal one time, and he told me what part of the human body was the tastiest,” and “Why can’t we do like the Chinese and fuck all the women we want and populate the world like the good Lord wanted us to?” When Johnson bought her a gift—a doll with a sash inscribed “Miss Pussy Galore”—Brown writes that he charmingly said it’s because, “I think you deserve a pussy award for all that wild fucking.” Sometimes Johnson didn’t have time to talk, telling Brown, “We’ve got to fuck in a hurry because Jack Benny’s coming on TV.”
Daniels’ Full Disclosure doesn’t suffer from crazy conspiracies. But it does suffer from being a rush job, like Judith Exner’s My Story, her account of her affair with John F. Kennedy. Both books contain too much personal trivia in the furious chase to fill pages. The reader does not need to know the different ways Exner and Frank Sinatra liked their scrambled eggs (“I’m a garbage scrambled egg eater—I empty the refrigerator and dump it all in.”). Nor is it interesting to learn what foods Daniels ate and what TV shows she watched while she was pregnant.
Both Exner and Daniels seem to take needless pleasure in settling nonpresidential scores. Exner characterizes Rat Packer Peter Lawford an “ass,” a “flunky” and “the one with the least talent.” Mort Viner, Dean Martin’s manager, is gratuitously dubbed “Mr. Average—average height … average intelligence, average looks.” Likewise, Daniels declares, somewhat tongue-in-cheek, that it “is important for the world to know” that “the intake nurse at St. Rose Hospital was a fucking bitch.” And she can’t let go of a grudge against Jessica Drake, a porn actress Daniels’ boyfriend was dating behind her back.
Despite the gossip and score-settling, My Story stands out as the most historically consequential of the mistress memoirs, piercing the “Camelot” myth and revealing the reckless, chaotic nature of the Kennedy presidency. Yet My Story also has the distinction of being the only book by a presidential mistress later disavowed by its author. Exner told Vanity Fair’s Liz Smith in 1996, “My stupid book haunts me.” The book was “as told to” journalist Ovid Demaris, but Exner told Smith she didn’t bother reviewing Demaris’ manuscript and so certain details are wrong, such as “saying Jack wanted us both to run away to a desert island. Or saying Jack played the Camelot music for me.”
Exner never disavowed the connective tissue of the book: She had a brief fling with Sinatra and they remained friends. During the 1960 presidential campaign, Sinatra introduced her to both Kennedy and Chicago mob boss Sam Giancana, with both of whom she would become romantically involved, though more heavily with Kennedy. Speculation would follow that the Mafia helped Kennedy pad his vote total in Illinois’ Cook County. And Giancana and his associate Johnny Roselli were later contracted by the Kennedy’s CIA to assassinate Cuban leader Fidel Castro (failing repeatedly).
However, My Story portrays Exner as a kind of Forrest Gump figure, on the periphery of such events but not directly involved. She would later claim otherwise. Exner’s book followed her 1975 appearance before the Senate’s Church committee, which was investigating CIA involvement in assassinating foreign leaders. The resulting report’s section on Cuba mentioned a “close friend” of Kennedy, Giancana and Roselli, and Exner was soon exposed by name in the Washington Post. At a subsequent press conference, she acknowledged a “relationship” of a “close, personal nature” with Kennedy, but that her personal ties to Giancana and Roselli “in no way related to or affected my relationship with Jack Kennedy. Nor did I discuss either of them with the other.”
But in the book there are several discussions about Kennedy with Giancana, who at one point says, “Listen, honey, if it wasn’t for me, your boyfriend wouldn’t even be in the White House.” In a 1988 interview for People, Exner claimed a more direct role as a courier between Kennedy and Giancana, setting up meetings at Kennedy’s request during the 1960 campaign that might have influenced the critical West Virginia primary, as well as the Cook County returns for the general election. And she carried messages between Kennedy and the mob during the presidency, which she later believed had to do with the effort to assassinate Castro. (Liz Smith said the 1975 Senate investigators asked Exner the wrong questions, probing whether the mob reached out to Kennedy, but not asking whether Kennedy reached out to the mob.)
The whole story is so bizarre that many found it unbelievable, especially because Exner’s story kept changing. She may have had a good excuse though; she didn’t want to end up wearing a pair of concrete galoshes, which is what happened to Giancana and Roselli. Giancana was murdered just before he could testify to the Church committee, and Roselli was killed shortly afterward. White House logs show Exner was a regular caller and visitor—you can see them in this ABC News “20/20” interview with Exner—and recently released classified documents show the CIA did contract Giancana and Roselli to kill Castro.
My Story was written by someone in the prime of her life desperately trying to salvage her reputation, and perhaps earn a few bucks. The two other books by JFK mistresses were written by women in their later years, able to bring life experience, accrued wisdom and historical context to their youthful recollections.
For those interested in reading about Kennedy’s affairs in chronological order, and seeing how his professional ascent tracked his moral decline, start with Gunilla von Post’s Love, Jack. She was the 21-year old daughter of Swedish aristocrats when she met Kennedy by chance on the French Riviera in 1953. After an enchanting evening capped with a moonlight kiss by the water in Antibes, she writes that the young senator came clean and told her he’s getting married next week, though “If I had met you one week before, I would have cancelled the whole thing.”
Still, neither could shake the other. They traded letters and phone calls for two years, until Kennedy visited Sweden in August 1955 for an intensely passionate week. Before he left to continue his European travels, Kennedy professed his love, according to von Post, and he promised to talk to his father about getting a divorce so they could be together forever. But a few weeks later, he called to report that the conversation “wasn’t a very pleasant” one, as his father exploded: “You’re out of your mind. You’re going to be president someday. This would ruin everything.” Kennedy tried to keep the long-distance affair going, von Post writes, and she considered a visit to America, until Kennedy called with the flame-dousing news that his wife was pregnant.
While Love, Jack portrays Kennedy as a philanderer from the beginning of his marriage, it also shows him displaying sincere emotion and sympathy. When von Post told him she needed to be able to start her own family, he eased off: “I wasn’t thinking enough about you. Only about me.”
Mimi Alford’s Once Upon a Secret, in contrast, shows Kennedy at his abusive worst. It begins in the summer of 1962, when Kennedy’s relationship with Exner was fading. Alford, then known as Mimi Beardsley, was a 19-year old college student. She was a White House intern for four days when Kennedy’s personal aide Dave Powers invited her for a swim in the White House pool. (Two White House secretaries were also in the pool; unbeknownst to Alford at the time, they were also mistresses.)
She was then invited to a late-afternoon staff soiree and given two daiquiris by Powers, before Kennedy arrived. The president invited Alford on a private “tour of the residence,” she writes, and then without obtaining verbal consent, he had sex with her. It was her first time. (She discusses in the book how others frequently tell her the encounter was rape, but she writes: “I don’t see it that way … I wouldn’t describe what happened that night as making love. But I wouldn’t call it nonconsensual, either.”)
While she admits to wrongly believing she had to accept subsequent invitations in order to keep her internship, she also became a willing mistress for the summer and beyond. Kennedy regularly called her at college, identifying himself as “Michael Carter” to the unaware campus switchboard operator. And, thanks to arrangements by Powers, she was driven to the airport in a limo (where she did her homework) and flown to the White House on weekends for trysts. She was even summoned to the White House during the Cuban Missile Crisis, though the president worked too late and Alford fell asleep before they could have sex.
One of the most disturbing passages of the book depicts Kennedy in the summer of 1962 urging Alford to give oral sex to Powers on the edge of the White House pool while he watched, “a pathetic, sordid scene” that she describes as emotional abuse. In the fall of 1963, at a Boston fundraiser, Kennedy made the same proposal, but this time for Teddy Kennedy. She defiantly refused. She considered it a “turning point” in her life.
Along with a window into Kennedy’s character, the book offers a deeper message regarding the corrosive nature of secrets. Alford’s affair with the president overlapped a budding relationship with a college student, who proposed to her in September 1963. She didn’t reveal the affair to her fiancé until Kennedy was assassinated, as it made her so distraught that she had little choice but to explain why. He was livid, and made their forthcoming marriage conditional on her never speaking of the affair to anyone ever again.
Their 26-year marriage ended in divorce, and she concludes, “My affair with JFK and Tony’s demand that I bury the subject forever were like two pathogens that we introduced into our marriage and that slowly, painfully, led to its death.” Only years later, when Dallek’s biography of Kennedy mentioned an affair with a college intern, did a New York Daily News reporter track down Alford, now 60, and ask if she was the one. She didn’t flinch, and let the secret go. The journey of Alford’s unburdening, combined with her lucid perspective, makes Once Upon a Secret the best of the presidential mistress genre.
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So how does Stormy Daniels’ Full Disclosure compare? While much of Daniels’ story about Trump is already known, Daniels uses the book to explain why she toggled back and forth between confirming and disavowing the rumor of her tryst, eventually embarking on the legal course that has shaken the Trump presidency.
Like Alford, she never wanted to tell her husband, Glen, about it, even though the one-night stand happened before their relationship began. Daniels was pressured to talk by In Touch magazine in 2011, on the grounds that the gossip would be published with or without her participation, so she might as well get paid for her side of the story. When, soon after her baby was born, she was warned in a parking lot to keep quiet, allegedly by a Trump associate, she decided her husband’s post-partum emotional state was too fragile and kept the incident to herself. When the article was spiked, she breathed a sigh a relief.
She writes that she considered talking during the 2016 campaign, out of an irrational fear fed by a friend that she might otherwise die in mysterious circumstances, like Marilyn Monroe or Vince Foster. So when she gets paid off by Trump and Cohen, she again was relieved: “They can’t murder me. And I don’t have to tell Glen!” When Trump’s money arrives in Glen’s bank account, Daniels explains that Trump paid her off so she won’t talk about being in a hotel with him, because “dinner with a porn star would look bad.” She falsely assured Glen, “Nothing happened.”
Daniels’ attitude about going public shifted again when the Wall Street Journal uncovered the news about the payment in January 2018 (yes, it was less than a year ago); and one month later Michael Cohen announced plans to write a book covering the episode. She writes: “This dim bulb Cohen was out there selling a book on my name, but I was the only person taking this NDA seriously? I can’t comment, profit, or defend myself?” (Yes, if Cohen didn’t shop a book, his whole legal mess might not have happened.)
Glen learned about the sex with Trump, and the subsequent parking lot incident, along with the rest of America, while watching Daniels’ 60 Minutes interview, and promptly went “ballistic.” In a very brief epilogue, Daniels explains that Glen recently filed for divorce, and at one point filed a restraining order and “vanished with our daughter.” She painfully recognizes the irony. “The whole reason for everything I had done—to protect my family—was suddenly blowing up in my face,” she writes. They’ve since agreed to share custody, but by concluding Full Disclosure with the breakup of her marriage, Daniels emulates Alford by powerfully, if not as elegantly, sharing a cautionary tale about the danger of secrets.
Earlier this year, Norway’s minister of international development visited Ghana.
Minister Nikolai Astrup had a simple request: He wanted to spend some time with his team collecting trash from beaches in the developing nation.
His team assured him that could be arranged. Then he was asked the most telling question of all: Where would they put the trash once it was collected?
“That’s the point,” he responded.
Developing countries like Ghana lack the necessary infrastructure to properly dispose of waste, meaning that trash ultimately ends up in rivers and streams that dump into the ocean.
Now, Norway is trying to change that.
On Saturday, Norway’s Prime Minister Erna Solberg announced a four-year, $200 million pledge to cleaning the world’s oceans.
In addition to the monetary commitment, Norway also revealed its partnership with the World Bank on a newly established fund dedicated to curbing marine litter and other ocean pollutants in developing countries — aptly named PROBLUE.
Prime Minister Erna Solberg has proven herself to be a leading voice in the fight to clean up the oceans.
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“This fund will support developing countries and emerging markets and implement some solutions,” Global Citizen policy director Michael Sheldrick said. The organization is assisting Norway in calling on activists around the world to urge their governments to focus on the ocean.
With $75 million already promised to the fund, Norway is determined to establish better waste management infrastructure around the world — like building sanitary landfills or creating better waste collection techniques.
“If you look at the hotspots of marine littering, it’s coming from countries where waste management isn’t properly funded,” Sheldrick said.
That said, the amount of work that wealthier countries need to do to clean up the oceans is also significant. This fund is just a helping hand that will guide developing nations to take the proper first steps.
Aside from this fund, Norway is also spearheading projects on its own around the world.
One of these projects focuses on incentives or “cash for trash,” where countries pay citizens to collect garbage off the streets. Recently, Taiwan adapted a similar model, where residents are now able to redeem money for transportation by collecting trash and disposing of it in “iTrash booths.”
Another project underway is Norway’s work with the International Union for Conservation of Nature in small island developing states to limit illegal fishing and clean up their coasts.
Tourism has destroyed beaches of under developed countries throughout the world.
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“In 2050 we will probably have 10 billion people in this world and the oceans will be even more important,” Minister Astrup said.
He admitted that Norway has vested interest in clean oceans since two-thirds of its export earnings come from oceanic and coastal activities. Norwegian leaders are determined to get the job done since many other countries — like the United States — have failed.
Prime Minister Solberg, Minister Astrup, and activists with Global Citizens are now turning their focus toward the next few months.
To them, the announcement on Saturday was just the beginning as they all work toward getting more countries involved in the effort.
“Many people have gotten wake up calls on the status of the oceans in the recent years because of the beached whales with bellies full of plastic. That has been an effective wake up call for many countries,” Minister Astrup said.
Japan’s southern islands have been the first to be hit by the powerful Typhoon Trami [Reuters]
A powerful typhoon hurtled toward Japan‘s mainland on Sunday after injuring dozens on southern islands, as weather officials warned that fierce winds and torrential rain could trigger landslides and floods.
The typhoon has already led to flight cancellations and power outages in several cities.
Typhoon Trami, rated Category 2, is the latest storm to threaten Japan in a year of grim weather-related woes, including punishing heat, heavy rains and landslides. The category 5 is the highest.
Japan issued evacuation orders and warnings to about 700,000 households in southern and western Japan.
More than 300,000 households have suffered power outages in southern Okinawa and Kagoshima prefectures, said public NHK television, adding nearly 50 people had been injured in Okinawa and Kagoshima.
Local officials said no one was feared dead as a result of the storm.
This is the view from my 10th floor room at the @HyattRegency#Naha on #Okinawa island – 1st photo is pre-typhoon #Trami from 24 hours ago and 2nd photo is current 6:50 AM with #typhoon Trami about to reach Naha. Winds are really howling, rain is going horizontal and it’s scary! pic.twitter.com/WbtOO5sIkq
Kansai International Airport in Osaka, western Japan, which was heavily flooded by a typhoon last month, said it had closed its runways from 11am (02:00 GMT) on Sunday until 6am on Monday. The airport only fully reopened on September 21.
Airlines cancelled or plan to cancel more than 930 flights, NHK said. Most of local trains and bullet trains in western areas will suspend operations on Sunday, operator West Japan Railway said.
Trami is currently heading towards Japan‘s northeast. It will cross the islands of Kyushu and the main island of Honshu between Sunday and Monday, a path similar to that taken Typhoon Jebi early in September.
Jebi, the most powerful storm to hit Japan in 25 years, brought some of the highest tides since a 1961 typhoon.
Rainfall of up to 400mm was forecast for the Amami island region and up to 250mm for Okinawa by noon Sunday, while the storm could generate waves up to 13 metres high around the regions, forecasters said.